A Perfect Climax of 2017

Yes, in search of a perfect climax to 2017! You know, why should I put this title? Because I want to make sure that the next commitment that I’m gonna make to 2018 must be followed/completed unlike 2017. The new life does not come with the New Year!

And so, this time, I didn’t have to wait until the end of the year. On one usual December night, I got this thought. And what did I learn from 2017 is: To Accept.

It is too hard for people like me who have got anger and egoistic nature in their inheritance. It is too hard to accept people talking all the crap; hard to even listen to them! The marriage season is here nowadays and so everyone is on their highest stress level. We want everything perfect in future, and so we’re ruining our present. (I keep myself engaged and make sure that future will be all okay after my sista would leave her old home. She and my Mi are busy shopping. We all are missing our precious time, but that’s okay whenever we are all together😊)

Instead of stressing out, I must keep myself contained because I’m gonna enjoy the marriage season and my sista will be happy in future and that turn needs not to be straight. Many times I keep thinking that this life will come to an end, and so you have to accept it because it is not in your hand. So, you only have options: to accept them earlier with happiness or to accept those facts after getting high BP. At the end, YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT.

What to do if you love someone? You can’t change that. Forget all the crap of ‘एक तरफ़ा प्यारकी ताकत ही कुछ और होती है...’ and all that, but accept that you love her/him even if the decision of the person is not as same. Accept that your feelings will also change in future.

You can’t change your past. Accept what already did happen and think about the future. (Believe me, demonetization worked. Not the way you wanted it to, but it did. And yes, there was nothing stressful about it, for common people too, still they were disturbing themselves because they were all unaware of the facts and the news. So now, that you can’t change your rupees notes to the older ones; why should you consider demonetization as some de-motivation to your nation? PS. I’m not ‘Modi-Bhakta’)

Other things for politics from this year, is elections. Chanakya said that, “a leader of the nation must have a strong opponent to keep the work at its perfect pace and to the peak performance.” At the start of the year, we saw Akhilesh and Rahul Gandhi reunion for the UP elections. People mocked them because of the event that followed the election propaganda. BJP won the UP elections. After that Nitishkumar (Bihar) supported Modi which topped all the news channels for a while and too much things happened then. Rahul Gandhi worked on his image and personality, and the Gujarat elections showed the results – ‘they didn’t win but they also didn’t lose.’ (Tharoor said.) BJP works smartly, as they know how to turn everything upside down. (They don’t know how to win, but they know how to defeat a party – also from Chanakya Niti/opposite to Vivekanand’s thoughts.)

The point is, I vote for one who works for my nation. And whenever we are discussing politics in our family group I’m from the truth’s side. No matter what the party is. Because I accept that everyone is not perfect, whoever is on the seat has something good and something bad. You can dislike them by comparing their works to others, but it doesn’t mean they don’t know how to run the nation. Accept this: “कोई भी देश perfect नहीं होता, उसे perfect बनाना पड़ता है..."

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I can’t always expect ‘movies’ to be the best. This year, I had to watch older movies because I didn’t like watching the new ones in theatre. (To be honest, Bahubali-2 was also worse than Bahubali-1) though I was happy as we were at the best in wrestling. Even though we lost our cricket worldcup before Pakistan, the test series were too good because of Kohli and Sharma. (Obviously, I’m talking about Rohit Sharma!)

‘To accept’ is the hardest for me when it comes to study and curriculum. This year, even though I accepted myself with my interests and studies, it is still too hard to keep it going. Those who are stressed about what people will say or parents will say, must not get to the point in life when they don’t get themselves. (Nope, I didn’t face this situation.)

The way you keep yourself positive for all the situations is: ‘Accept your success. Accept your failures.’ People call me ‘all rounder’, which can be true. But only when, I’m on the limelight with my confidence. I don’t care about people when I’m on the stage, because it is 'my' performance; and I don’t care about people when I’m in the dustbin because it is all about finding a thrown diamond. If people call me arrogant; well, I am. I am, for my positive attitude. And I am proud, when I follow my vow: ‘To accept’.

Filmy time:

I laughed after writing the 'I don't care about people' part as I remembered Rachel from FRIENDS.

She: "Everyone says you're a shoe, you're a shoe.

But what if I want to be a... Purse"

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He replied something on phone.

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She: "I'm not saying I need a purse... It's a metaphor Daddy" 

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See, she accepted what she was and thought of her future as what she wanted to become.

Men

His eyes are gloomy,

Because when I look at him-

Smiling;

His lips, smirking:

It seems like some joke to me.

I know-

I'm not the reason,

And also

The reason I don’t know.

He is used to be

A person - tough guy,

Who can’t share,

Who can’t shed tears,

Because- 

He was taught

To be strong:

Keeping inside everything.

Everything-

His fears, his griefs.

At last,

On one fine day,

I asked him,

“What is it?”

And

I’m sure I was conscious-

Fully,

When he said,

“Nothing,

I’m sleepy.”

I made this poem when I was sleepy and I realized that men are this simple. You see him all mysterious, but there’s nothing in his mind!

Let me start from the beginning.

I would like to share this as it is one of my favorites:

“There is peaceful. There is wild.

I am both at the same time.”

-Sum

This is true, because I’ve observed (seen, actually! It’s common!) my Paa. I don’t know why they are like that, but I’m assuming it must be because of their work. Yes, they are more dedicated to their work. Where women are good at multitasking; on the other side I see men more devoted to their work. It is the ‘responsibility’ feature that their parents have grown inside of him. You see, in childhood they may be mischievous, and even grown up men can be disoriented or lost, but at the end, they know that the whole responsibility of their family will come under their hands and they have to then manage all the things. It’s not only Indian culture that we see them responsible, it’s everywhere. Not because of the family thing, but even if they want to live their life on their own terms, they are not dependent on their parents for long time. Perhaps the chief factor behind it is ‘ego’!

My apologies to your burning hearts, but it’s crystal clear. From making a family to breaking someone’s heart, there’s always the ego that explains everything. To be independent, to spend the money, they want their jobs faster so that they don’t have to beg for money from their parents. And I’m not saying that it is there all the time, because sometimes parents also forces this behavior, taunting: “You are a grown up now. And you do nothing. Get a job.” They want to make their son responsible, but the ego fires inside him and they take job for nothing but money. Responsibility can come directly or through ego. So, responsibility is one thing a woman should acquire (Not ego, which is what expanding actually nowadays). Be responsible, girl! Don’t blame your husband.

Planning: this point comes under men being simple. I know most of us are not good at it, but still, men are better at planning than women. They have thought everything from very earlier, and so they are better at it; with following too.

Let me contradict myself: Women like mysterious men.

So, all men are simple but mysterious! Ha Ha!! See, they are simple, so woman thinks (just like the poem written above) that he is thinking something. He is hiding something. At the end, that’s nothing and that’s why he becomes mysterious! (Reread, if you don’t get it, because it’s mysteriously hard to explain this simple thing!)

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INTERPRETATION: What do we want?

Men want Beauty with brain

Women want Muscularity with good sense of humor

MISsed-INTERPRETATION:

(Answer for ‘it is complicated’ and ‘we are just friends’)

1. He thinks of her friendship as love.

2. She thinks of his love as friendship.

-JV

Filmy Time:

Iske baad bhi agar insaan kisi kone me jake betha hai na chupchap, toh kya, ghadi ghadi,

‘Kya soch rahe ho? Kya soch rahe ho? Kya soch rahe ho?’

Arey kuchh nahi soch raha meri maa, ye soch raha hoon ki tera mooh kaise band karoon!

‘Kya soch raha hoon’, camera laga doon dimag me? 

-All time favorite,

‘Pyaar Ka Punchnama’ (2011)

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