Women

This blog is about most of the girls, except me, but still consider me as included, because I used to say, “I’m different than other girls”; then I got to know that most of the girls say this cliché. So, yes! Even though I don’t like it, but I’m among these girls!

So, let’s say the eternal truth:

कीर्ति: श्रीर्वाक्च नारिणां स्मृतिर्मेधा धृति: क्षमा ।।

Chapter 10; Verse 34
Bhagvad Gita

Whole of the chapter, in which Lord Krishna gives his intro as, “I’m in this and that”, and says this verse too. The meaning is, “I’m in woman’s Kirti (glory, fame), Lakshmi (prosperity), Vaani (speech), Smriti (memory), Buddhi (brain and mind), Dhiraj (patience), and Kshama (forgiveness). The word we say ‘Chaturya’(ingenuity) maybe came from this.

Most of the time, we say, women like mysterious men. But, perhaps the reason is behind them being that way. Women are mysterious: even they don’t know what they want. Men are simple; they know what they want with their success, they know where their relationship is going (that’s why only women ask this question, kidding!), they know what steps have to be taken for the next generation. Women are more like ‘Go with the flow’.

The ingenuity comes by birth. They are mysterious, but they can find their own way. Her ‘brain’ is developed in the way that she can handle multiple things at the same time. She has the ‘patience’ of cooking on a slow burning flame so that the recipe can be tastier. She ‘remembers’ your one month anniversary to make you feel special (and as a human, expects too). With ‘brain’ and ‘speech’, she becomes a perfect bride for your family and adds on the ‘glory’. She comes with ‘prosperity’ as she, herself, is the donation. Cheat her once, and you’ll see, for her family’s sake, she’ll ‘forgive’ you. Tell me why Krishna should not have mentioned this?

I’m not saying every woman has these qualities, but most of them do have. (Want to agree with me? Okay, don’t think of your friends, girlfriend, or wife, (huh!). Think of your mom. Now you agree, right?) And still, if you find her functioning worse than unusual, either she is over thinking something or crying inside. Remember at that time, she doesn’t need your advice; she just needs your support!

People say women are crazy about looking beautiful. Well, women also want to be involved in business but they don’t get much chance (exposure to that field). It is as same as men being mad about movies or videogames or else (see, so many fields they are exposed to). At the end, what we (both) want is family and freedom (controversial!).

‘AD’vices:

1. Be an observer, not a stalker.

2. Propose her on a rollercoaster-ride or after fast drive. Dopamine secretions will be increased. And then the chances of ‘yes’ will be more. –Prit Kiye Sukh Hoy (by Jay Vasavada)

Filmy-time:

“Ek ladki sirf itna chahti hai ki koi use itna pyar kare jitna kisine kisise na kiya ho…”

Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi (2008)

Why do boys like this movie more than girls do?



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