Women

This blog is about most of the girls, except me, but still consider me as included, because I used to say, “I’m different than other girls”; then I got to know that most of the girls say this cliché. So, yes! Even though I don’t like it, but I’m among these girls!

So, let’s say the eternal truth:

कीर्ति: श्रीर्वाक्च नारिणां स्मृतिर्मेधा धृति: क्षमा ।।

Chapter 10; Verse 34
Bhagvad Gita

Whole of the chapter, in which Lord Krishna gives his intro as, “I’m in this and that”, and says this verse too. The meaning is, “I’m in woman’s Kirti (glory, fame), Lakshmi (prosperity), Vaani (speech), Smriti (memory), Buddhi (brain and mind), Dhiraj (patience), and Kshama (forgiveness). The word we say ‘Chaturya’(ingenuity) maybe came from this.

Most of the time, we say, women like mysterious men. But, perhaps the reason is behind them being that way. Women are mysterious: even they don’t know what they want. Men are simple; they know what they want with their success, they know where their relationship is going (that’s why only women ask this question, kidding!), they know what steps have to be taken for the next generation. Women are more like ‘Go with the flow’.

The ingenuity comes by birth. They are mysterious, but they can find their own way. Her ‘brain’ is developed in the way that she can handle multiple things at the same time. She has the ‘patience’ of cooking on a slow burning flame so that the recipe can be tastier. She ‘remembers’ your one month anniversary to make you feel special (and as a human, expects too). With ‘brain’ and ‘speech’, she becomes a perfect bride for your family and adds on the ‘glory’. She comes with ‘prosperity’ as she, herself, is the donation. Cheat her once, and you’ll see, for her family’s sake, she’ll ‘forgive’ you. Tell me why Krishna should not have mentioned this?

I’m not saying every woman has these qualities, but most of them do have. (Want to agree with me? Okay, don’t think of your friends, girlfriend, or wife, (huh!). Think of your mom. Now you agree, right?) And still, if you find her functioning worse than unusual, either she is over thinking something or crying inside. Remember at that time, she doesn’t need your advice; she just needs your support!

People say women are crazy about looking beautiful. Well, women also want to be involved in business but they don’t get much chance (exposure to that field). It is as same as men being mad about movies or videogames or else (see, so many fields they are exposed to). At the end, what we (both) want is family and freedom (controversial!).

‘AD’vices:

1. Be an observer, not a stalker.

2. Propose her on a rollercoaster-ride or after fast drive. Dopamine secretions will be increased. And then the chances of ‘yes’ will be more. –Prit Kiye Sukh Hoy (by Jay Vasavada)

Filmy-time:

“Ek ladki sirf itna chahti hai ki koi use itna pyar kare jitna kisine kisise na kiya ho…”

Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi (2008)

Why do boys like this movie more than girls do?



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Nightmares

“Experience is a key to knowledge.”

I agree with this, but it also seems the same if we remember our dreams!

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A few days ago, I marked something. Due to a college event, I stayed awake till the morning. No, it was not work, it was the-next-day-excitement. So, when I woke up after four and half hour of restless sleep, I realized I hadn’t had any dreams. When you don’t dream (you always do, but just can’t remember every day), you think you had the wonderful sleep without disturbance.

So, when I tell you to think of your nightmares, you must be reminding yourself not to memorize that horrible dream. Well, let me say this, the dreams or the nightmares are actually your new experiences.

Get yourself together, because you know those dreams of crushes and love, and I’m going to talk about it. Those dreams really make you weak. After seeing them, you get to know that it isn’t a big deal! Sometimes you force yourself to forget the crushes and their dreams or sometimes you behave so good with your lover that you literally can find yourself a bit of changed than the other days, and it’s just because your lover treated you better in your dreams and now those feelings are begging you to do the same. Sometimes you find yourself controlling your smile in front of your crush because that dream is making you weak.

I’ve seen the dreams in which I want to marry Hritik Roshan even though he’s not so favorite to me (Nope, not in the crush list!), and the next day I loved watching his ads! This fever remains for one to two days and then I’m the same as I have been ever before.

You must have seen horrible nightmares, those with full of ghosts and witches. When you wake up suddenly, you run to grab someone’s hand in terms of protection. At least, you tell that dream to someone as it helps you to relieve your fear.

Those nightmares, when you see your loved ones dying. So much pain in the dream that you cry in real or you can’t even cry but you feel headache with frowning of your eyebrows.

So, today why am I in search of these nightmares?

When I was a kid, I read this somewhere: watching dreams is the process when your brain is emptying the recycle bin. (It might be true, I love magical sci-fi!) The point is, when I see these dreams, I become weak but at the next moment I know what steps I must take. These dreams are the experiences you get without having the external world changed.

I know you might be doing the same unknowingly, because we all want our heads clear. Because I want to make sure to have an answer prepared about whom should I choose for myself: Hritik or Shahrukh? Because I want myself together, to confront a devil, with Hanuman Chalisa ready in my mind. Because a moment will come when the person I love the most will die in front of me but I will be there handling others and myself.

So, I would rather say, cry for a moment today, but be happy. Be happy, that you got to handle the situation before it actually occurring, that there will be a second chance when you’ll not cry but face it like a boss. We know this, definitely, because our solved question paper gives us full marks when we attend it again.

Filmy Time:

Mere Khayalo ki mallika,

Charo’n taraf teri chhaiya’n re

Tham le aake baiya’n…

Our hero saw a dream-girl, sang the song, did all the fights, and got the girl.

He knew the steps he had to take to make the dream real.

See!