સાચા સંબંધો સાચવવા પડતા નથી,
અને સાચવવા પડે એ સંબધો સાચા હોતા નથી...
(True relationships don't need handling,
If relationships need handling, those are not true relationships then)
I liked this quote when I was in school. I really liked it too much. It made sense to me. Maybe I don't need handling my relationships with my Mi, Paa, my sista, and my brother. We live a happy life, and sometimes we also become angry or sad with one another, but then it becomes all right. So I thought one of my favorite quote was all good and perfect! But it is not...
Don't we always handle and care for our relationships?
What if I don't apologise or even try to talk to Paa after his scolding? What if my Mi doesn't force me to eat when my mood is off? What if I don't ask for any clueless advices to my sista when we've stopped talking? What if my brother doesn't discuss about a book with me after a fight?
Maybe our relationships are always handled without our noticing.
Yes, we do group chat, we talk, we together see a family movie, we say sorry to our partner even there was not our fault, we sing, we eat, we share, we dance, together. We celebrate functions. We live together. Don't we do everything to keep our relationships alive?
Actually the quote is written wrongly! When we don't handle a relationship, that relationship becomes fake! Give it a try - live together, but stop sharing. Stop talking. Stop caring. Stop handling and stop expecting. After a quarrel, no one have to be sorry to anyone. Keep your ego steady in your relationship. Now, after you've stopped worrying and caring about each other, after you've stopped handling, have you got any good relationship? Have you even got a relationship?
Stop judging and stop interfering in others life. Make them free and let them have some privacy. But be involved in their lives and involve them in your lives.
Because when you handle a relationship, you take that relationship one step further to its truthfulness.
અને સાચવવા પડે એ સંબધો સાચા હોતા નથી...
(True relationships don't need handling,
If relationships need handling, those are not true relationships then)
I liked this quote when I was in school. I really liked it too much. It made sense to me. Maybe I don't need handling my relationships with my Mi, Paa, my sista, and my brother. We live a happy life, and sometimes we also become angry or sad with one another, but then it becomes all right. So I thought one of my favorite quote was all good and perfect! But it is not...
Don't we always handle and care for our relationships?
What if I don't apologise or even try to talk to Paa after his scolding? What if my Mi doesn't force me to eat when my mood is off? What if I don't ask for any clueless advices to my sista when we've stopped talking? What if my brother doesn't discuss about a book with me after a fight?
Maybe our relationships are always handled without our noticing.
Yes, we do group chat, we talk, we together see a family movie, we say sorry to our partner even there was not our fault, we sing, we eat, we share, we dance, together. We celebrate functions. We live together. Don't we do everything to keep our relationships alive?
Actually the quote is written wrongly! When we don't handle a relationship, that relationship becomes fake! Give it a try - live together, but stop sharing. Stop talking. Stop caring. Stop handling and stop expecting. After a quarrel, no one have to be sorry to anyone. Keep your ego steady in your relationship. Now, after you've stopped worrying and caring about each other, after you've stopped handling, have you got any good relationship? Have you even got a relationship?
Stop judging and stop interfering in others life. Make them free and let them have some privacy. But be involved in their lives and involve them in your lives.
Because when you handle a relationship, you take that relationship one step further to its truthfulness.
