"I fell in love with him the way you fall asleep, slowly and then all at once."
When you are sick of everything, don't know what can be done with the people around you, that moment leads you to make you a narcissist or to make you realized about that. The process of loving yourself is just like this line from John Green's book. You realize about yourself by the facts and time, slowly. But then all at once, only an incident makes you the one.
I also do believe that you should be that narcissist. You know why? Because when you love yourself, you'll get confidence, and that will make others to believe in you. And at the end of the day, when you're annoyed, broken hearted, disrespected, distrusted, only one person that's gonna be with you for the life time is only you.
Just for a moment, be selfish. Think about yourself. When you'll do what you like to do, no one's gonna scold you or annoy you as if they were known by the fact. After a trice, they will remember you as a guy who is happy with himself. They're gonna like it, because in your loved job, your work will be perfect! Now, come back to the reality and think about all those big names, like - Dhirubhai Ambani, Narayana Murthy; not only businessmen, but politicians, actors - actresses, like - Modi, Nehru, Shahrukh Khan, Amitabh Bachchan, Hemamalini, Priyanka Chopra; they all are on the same way. They are selfish and they became that selfish for own self. And now the whole world is praising them, because of their Nobel work. They're best in it.
In search of your own self you also give this world a great person, as you fulfill your dreams, your actuality. That satisfaction in being yourself is what everyone's gonna love. You know the reason behind that? Because when you're gonna be busy in being yourself, other narcissists will welcome you in your actual new world, and the fake world, that you just have left, made up of 'people', will see you as another celebrity!
Yes, you'll become the one, when 'people' wouldn't even be turning their diary's pages!
-The Fault in Our Stars, John Green
When you are sick of everything, don't know what can be done with the people around you, that moment leads you to make you a narcissist or to make you realized about that. The process of loving yourself is just like this line from John Green's book. You realize about yourself by the facts and time, slowly. But then all at once, only an incident makes you the one.
I also do believe that you should be that narcissist. You know why? Because when you love yourself, you'll get confidence, and that will make others to believe in you. And at the end of the day, when you're annoyed, broken hearted, disrespected, distrusted, only one person that's gonna be with you for the life time is only you.
Just for a moment, be selfish. Think about yourself. When you'll do what you like to do, no one's gonna scold you or annoy you as if they were known by the fact. After a trice, they will remember you as a guy who is happy with himself. They're gonna like it, because in your loved job, your work will be perfect! Now, come back to the reality and think about all those big names, like - Dhirubhai Ambani, Narayana Murthy; not only businessmen, but politicians, actors - actresses, like - Modi, Nehru, Shahrukh Khan, Amitabh Bachchan, Hemamalini, Priyanka Chopra; they all are on the same way. They are selfish and they became that selfish for own self. And now the whole world is praising them, because of their Nobel work. They're best in it.
In search of your own self you also give this world a great person, as you fulfill your dreams, your actuality. That satisfaction in being yourself is what everyone's gonna love. You know the reason behind that? Because when you're gonna be busy in being yourself, other narcissists will welcome you in your actual new world, and the fake world, that you just have left, made up of 'people', will see you as another celebrity!
Yes, you'll become the one, when 'people' wouldn't even be turning their diary's pages!
